Bye Bye 2012 *You sucked*

Finally, the horrendous 2012 is over. This has been such an awful year that I do not even wish to look back and remember all that has happened this year so I will spare all of you the horror of being reminded about the Sandy, Mass Shooting, Gang Rape and other such horrible horrible things that happened this year.

The only thing that I can tell you is that this year taught us that what does not kill us only makes us stronger. It sure does!

Some of the other things I learnt were:

1. Always know where to draw the line. Always!

2. No matter what you do, where you are and who you are..Family is Family!

3. You should only be generous with love and trust when you have learnt to give those things to yourself. #TrueThat

4. No matter what happens to you, no matter how hard your heart breaks, no matter what injures you and your trust, always remember -You will survive! You might think you won’t and others might tell you that you won’t but YOU WILL!

5. Hard Work has no substitutes. Even in an age of smart work and office politics, hard work still rules and will take you far in your career. Just give it a chance!

6. Note to self: You cannot save money so just stop trying! Just buy gold and pay for the insurance as you do now and you’ll be fine!

that’s it! That’s a lot to learn in a year…but I swear I have learnt it like never before. Ask me to brave a breakup now and I’ll tell you that I can, ask me to brave office politics and I’ll tell you I can, ask me to brave people passing away and I’ll tell you I can, ask me to brave people going away and I’ll tell you I sure can. I’ll tell you things I never thought I would learn so soon in life and I am super happy about it. The ‘sooner the better’ is always preferred over ‘late and sorry’.



Miss M

P.S I just realized that I have never been this happy this whole year as I am today. I feel blessed and content with my life today and if you know me you’ll know how I suck at feeling blessed and content.


100 Questions Version 3.0

So once again – I am answering the same stupid 100 FB Questions again only this time it’s on my blog because I am too ashamed to put them on FB LOL. Yes, you can judge me all you want but until I fly off in February ..all I am going to do is post on my blog and have wine/whiskey. HELL YES I am in highschool.

1. Last beverage? Water

2. Last phone call? Saumya Shukla

3. Last text message? Mansi Bali

4. Last song you listened to? Nobody said it was easy by ColdPlay

5. Last time you cried? No Answer


1. dated someone twice? Yes (only after one week of breaking up with the same person  so technically No)

2. been cheated on? Yes

3. kissed someone & regretted it? Yes

4. lost someone special? Yes

5. been depressed? Yes

6. been drunk and threw up? Yaaaa!


1. White

2. Grey

3. Brown


1. Made new friends? No

2. Fallen out of love? NO

3. Laughed until you cried? No

4. Met someone who changed you? No

5. Found out who your true friends were? Yes

6. Found out someone was talking about you? Yes

7. Kissed anyone on your friend’s list? Yes

8. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life? Everyone

9. How many kids do you want to have? 3

10. Do you have any regrets? Maybe 1

11. Do you want to change your name? I love my name

12. What did you do for your last birthday? Partied with friends, lunch with girls, hug with Big!

13. What time did you wake up today? 8:30 AM

14. What were you doing at midnight last night? Listening to music and sipping whiskey!

15. Something you CANNOT wait for? 2013

16. Last time you saw your father? 2 Seconds back!

17. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life? I wish my sister and my chacha were still around

18. What are you listening to right now? Nobody said it was easy by ColdPlay

19. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom? Yes

23. What’s getting on your nerves right now? Nothing

24. Most visited webpage? TOI website

1. Whats your real name? Shivani Singh

2. Nicknames? Shivi

4. Zodiac sign? Pisces

5. Male or female or transgendered? Female

6. Infants? Merry Home

7. Junior Schooll? Mira Model

8. High School? Mira Model

10. Hair color? dark brown

11. Long or short? long

16. Height ? 5’2

17. Do you have a crush on someone? Yes

18: What do you like about yourself? My outlook

19. Piercings? ears & nose

20. Tattoos? No

21. Righty or lefty? Righty


22. First surgery? 24th October.2003

23. First piercing? Ears

24. First best friends? Kanchu-First and last! Soulmate

26. First sport you joined?Athletics (Yes no one will believe it)

27. First pet? Dog

28. First vacation? First ever was in himchal when i was 8 months old

29. First concert? Beyonce

30. First crush? Don’t remember.


49. Eating? Walnut Cake

50. Drinking? Wine

52. I’m about to? Finish this blog post

53. Listening to? Nobody said it was easy by ColdPlay (Bitch how many times does this question come up)

55. Waiting for? Something I can’t mention here


58. Want kids? Yes

59. Want to get married? Yes

60. Careers in mind? Investor Relations (PR)


68. Lips or eyes? Lips

69. Hugs or kisses? Kisses

70. Shorter or taller? Taller

71. Older or Younger? Definitely Older

72. Romantic or spontaneous? Spontaenous

73. Nice stomach or nice arms? Arms

74. Sensitive or loud? Loud

75. Hook-up or relationship? Relationship

77. Trouble maker or hesitant? Trouble Maker


78. Kissed a stranger? No

79. Drank hard liquor? Yes

80. Lost glasses/contacts? No

81. Sex on first date? No

82. Broken someone’s heart? Yes

83. Had your own heart broken? Yes

85. Been arrested? No

86. Turned someone down? Yes

87. Cried when someone died? Hell Yes

88. Liked a friend that is a girl? Yes Lol


89. Yourself? Yes

90. Miracles? Yes

91. Love at first sight? Not anymore

92. Heaven? Yes

93. Santa Clause? Hell Yes

95. Kiss on the first date? Not anymore

96. Angels? Yes


97. Is there one person you want to be with right now? Yes

98. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? No

100. Posting this as 100 Truths? Yes

I Love Furniture: Cute Bar Ideas

I don’t really remember when and how I got hooked to furniture and home decor but these days I often catch myself looking at decor and furniture sites in my free time and keep pining for my own house to design. I just stumbled upon these two cute portable bars and I totally loved the idea especially since we don’t really have huge houses in Delhi. These little delights can give you the luxury of having your own bar in a Delhi apartment.

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Hope you like them!

Miss M

The blog is all set for 2013

The Blog is all set for 2013, it has a swanky new look, updated Wishlist for 2013, updated About Me section, twitter feed of my personal twitter (yes I can’t believe I am letting go of the anonymity) and a new search button to look for entries on the blog. There is also a new section to sign up for updates! I am in full mood to take this 10 steps ahead of what it was until this year.

I have also decided to use my blog name initials for signing off each entry because it’s confusing, sometimes I use Motormouth, sometimes Drama Queen and sometimes just me. Going forward all entries will be signed off as Miss M.


Miss M

Color me Yellow!

As I sit in my dimly lit room, sipping good whiskey and watching a good series, I can’t help but think about the past few months. This is how whiskey is different from any another drink – it gives you a sense of subtle euphoria despite the underlying sorrows that you might be living with.

Never mind, sorrows are a chapter I am not willing to discuss. I figured if I can’t stomach sorrows then I must not engage in passive aggressive blogging about it either.

Coming back to the dimly lit room, I painted my room with a fresh coat of yellow paint. It looks pretty and I finally got rid of all the clutter in my room and as I sit here thinking about what tomorrow will look like, all I can see is a new city and fresh chance.  It is a bitter sweet feeling.

This is probably the last chance I will get at having a new life in a new city and I must not waste it like all the other chances I got. I have pegged some expectations towards this one and even though having learnt fairly recently that I must not expect from others, I do have some expectations from a new city. A new city will give me a fresh lease of life which is why I am spending the one month that is left into calming myself down and forgiving and forgetting a lot and literally reducing my friend list. No Joke!

I am excited and a bit remorse all at the same time.

Also, a little tipsy I think…:D



Kamaal Karte Ho Pandey Ji


Haaaayeee! Kya Film Hai! Har roz kyun nahi release hoti ek nayi Dabangg!

I usually never ever write about movies because I know I will suck at writing any review, however, Dabangg is an exception to that rule and let me tell you that there was no way I was going to sleep today without writing about Dabangg. Please note that I will not be talking about the story or the plot because I hate spoilers so I don’t want to spoil it for anyone reading this post. This post is about what I felt about the movie. Yes I FELT…..

First things first: Salman Khan rocked the movie. I was gasping for breath when he took off his shirt and this has never happened (not his shirtless stunt but my gasping for breath when an actor does something sexy on screen..NEVER) So yes, I could not take my eyes off Chulbul Pandey even for a moment.

The movie is a full blockbuster masala movie and it is not meant for  people who go to cinemas to find substance and realism….(Isn’t our life full of drama and realism anyway?) This movies is for people like me who go to cinemas to watch masala and Dabangg 2 promises to be the most masaledaar entertainer you have ever seen since Dabangg 1.

The dialogues, the action, the flow – everything about the movie had Super Hit written on it. There was not even a single dull moment. Rajjo looked ravishing and munni made a guest appearance  Arbaaz Khan sure knows how to keep the lucky charms. Kareena Kapoor’s performance was not at par with munni but the lyrics of ‘Fevicol Se’ sure were written by a really chichor man and I loved it. *main toh tandoori murgi hoon yaar, gatka le mujhe alchohol se*

I was just talking to a friend and he asked me why women rave about Chulbul Pandey?

The answer is simple & in bullet points:

  1. Chulbul epitomizes the real hero, not some pseudo do good and be good hero.
  2. The true robin hood: help the poor and make the rich pay!
  3. While he dances with munnis and Fevicol girls – he loves rajjo, marries her and is loyal to her. That is a man of character right there.

He’s sexy and hot is a separate thing all together. It’s this real yet larger than life character that women fall for. We all want a chulbul to love us not a cheddi or a bachha bhaiya!

My Verdict: It does not deserve 5 stars …it deserves 5 Seetis…*Seeti Seeti Seeti Seeti Seeti*

All I have to say is:

Ab zindagi beetegi toh kisi chulbul pandey material ke saath ..varna akele hi sahi! #nocompromise